Dear White Normative Man….

Fuck you!

As I was making my way home, I passed through White-Marts overly expansive auto squatting lot.

I scanned my way through welfare for auto’s and yielded to foot traffic as appropriate. Upon completing my turn into the home stretch lane, I scanned for male centrist autos driven by any person¬†behind the wheel.

As I approached the stop sign, I witnessed a white pick up truck careening off the main road, his white truck bouncing over the curb, the rear end fishtailing as he hit the gas.

Visually calculating the distance, I knew there wouldn’t be time to make it through the squatting lot intersection and avoid the large white man who occupied the large white truck.

None of the rules applied to him.

He was normal.

I was not.

He gave me a white, shit eating grin, from behind the white whiskers framing his white face, as he sat behind the wheel of his white truck. His large white thumb sticking up in the oppressive air which surrounded him.

“Thank you for following the rules of the road,” his actions screamed, as he himself broke several.

Pedaling off from my power position, pedal up, as my weight propelled me forward.

I looked over my shoulder and signaled to him that he was indeed number one.

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Normative male centrist society, from which sprung forth the auto, has classified rules which dominate all others. By default, you and I are ‘other’.

The culture around “Those rule breaking bicyclists,” perfectly sums up a micro view of normative white culture.

My two disadvantages are being a woman on a bicycle. It irks me to no end when white men co-opt rape culture to ‘prove’ their victimization. Which isn’t to say that they can’t be victims of a crime. But they will never be a black man, woman, LGBTQ, and a victim of a crime

For that white man, he momentarily becomes other(ized) as he climbs on his bicycle. This other(ing) is brief and surface deep. Like dipping a toe in to test the temperature of the otherness water.

These men, who also invented the bicycle, before rapidly tossing it for the much more exclusionary auto, can not be the voice of bicycle advocacy.

They are, as a whole, crushing any forward momentum we have obtained.

Only recently have I found a few men, who have grasped the concept that you can not rationalize with the irrational and male culture is irrational, full stop.

People who drive, break as many “rules of the road” as anyone else who doesn’t drive. But Pedestrians and Bicyclists bear the brunt of being labeled a wanton rule breaker.

Any motorist, no matter their race or gender identity, is participating in, propping up, and re-establishing white normative culture as the default culture when they ‘other’ anyone traveling on foot or using alternative transportation, such as a bicycle.

 

 

Please take a few minutes to read this delightful article on why “The Straight, White, Middle-Class Man Needs to Be Dethroned.”

“Default Man feels he is the reference point from which all other values and cultures are¬†judged. Default Man is the zero longitude of identities.”

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